Lucie Arnaz recently shared a heartfelt moment she had with her father, Desi Arnaz, during an interview on CBS’s "Sunday Morning." The 73-year-old actress expressed that her proudest memory of her father was when he openly acknowledged his struggle with alcoholism. This significant moment happened while Desi was in treatment, a time when he was known for his private nature.
Lucie recalled visiting her father and witnessing him take a brave step. He stood up in front of others and said, "My name is Desi, and I’m an alcoholic." This admission was particularly meaningful for Lucie, who described her father as a complicated man. She noted that it took him a long time to reach this point of acceptance.
The Arnaz family has faced challenges with alcoholism. Lucie’s brother, Desi Jr., had sought treatment for his own struggles, while Desi Sr. was initially reluctant to seek help. However, after the death of his second wife, Edie Hirsch, in 1985, Desi recognized he needed to change. Lucie shared that he finally asked her brother for help, saying, "I can’t do this anymore."
Desi began to confront his issues and take responsibility for his actions. Lucie felt immense pride in her father for finally understanding his condition. Unfortunately, this realization came too late, as Desi was diagnosed with lung cancer shortly after. He passed away in 1986, just a year after he began his journey towards recovery.
Lucie reflected on the bittersweet nature of her father’s acknowledgment, stating that it was a proud moment overshadowed by the challenges that followed. She also mentioned that during his illness, Desi was unable to attend Alcoholics Anonymous meetings, as he was in poor health.
Desi Arnaz and Lucille Ball, Lucie’s mother, were married for 20 years before their divorce in 1960. Both icons of television, they left an indelible mark on the industry. Lucille passed away in 1989, and now, with renewed interest in Desi’s life due to a new biography, Lucie continues to honor her father’s legacy.
As Lucie shared her story, she highlighted the importance of acknowledging struggles and seeking help, a message that resonates deeply with many families facing similar issues.