In recent years, many people have noticed a decline in civility in everyday life. From rudeness in public spaces to the way people interact online, a growing number of Americans feel that manners have worsened. A recent survey by the Pew Research Center highlights this trend, showing that nearly half of Americans believe rudeness has increased since the COVID-19 pandemic.
The survey revealed that about one in five respondents think rudeness has significantly worsened. Many people reported experiencing rude behavior frequently in public places, with over a third saying they see it "almost always or often." This has led to frustrations and a desire for fewer social interactions.
Examples of rudeness that stand out include wearing clothing with offensive language, smoking in public areas, and taking photographs of others without permission. A striking 70 percent of those surveyed found it rude to bring children into adult-only spaces, like bars or upscale restaurants. This perception raises concerns about society’s growing discomfort with children in public.
Interestingly, the survey found little difference in attitudes toward rudeness across political lines. Both Democrats and Republicans seem to agree that public behavior is declining, which is a rare point of consensus in today’s polarized environment.
Historically, concerns about public manners are not new. Figures like William Wilberforce, an 18th-century British statesman, campaigned against rudeness alongside his efforts to end slavery. He believed that individual behavior and public policy were closely linked. Today, many wonder if the same connection holds true as political leaders often display incivility.
The survey’s findings suggest that awareness of appropriate behavior is high. An overwhelming 84 percent of respondents acknowledged they know what is considered acceptable in public. Yet, many choose to disregard these social norms, indicating a troubling shift in values.
As communities grapple with these issues, some advocate for initiatives to promote civility, similar to anti-littering campaigns. Such efforts could provide a platform for leaders to unite people around a common goal of improving public manners. In a time when division seems prevalent, fostering a culture of respect and kindness could be a step toward healing social relationships.