With Father’s Day just around the corner, it’s a great time to reflect on the Founding Fathers and their roles not only as leaders of our nation but also as devoted fathers. John Adams, one of the key figures in American history, was a father to six children, four of whom lived into adulthood. As we approach the 250th anniversary of the Declaration of Independence in 2026, it’s important to honor both his contributions to our country and his dedication to his family.
During the late 1700s, as tensions rose between America and Britain, Adams spent a lot of time away from home. He was a significant player in both the First and Second Continental Congresses. Despite his busy schedule, he made it a point to write to his family whenever he could. His letters reveal the deep love he had for his children and his longing to be with them, even as he worked tirelessly for the nation’s future.
In a heartfelt letter to his wife, Abigail, in 1776, Adams expressed his sorrow over being separated from his children. He wrote, “It is a cruel Reflection… that I should be separated so far from those Babes, whose Education And Welfare lies so near my Heart.” This shows how much he valued his family, even while acknowledging his duty to his country.
Adams often shared his dreams of spending time with his family, describing simple pleasures like walking in the garden with his children. His letters painted a picture of a man who, despite the weight of revolution on his shoulders, cherished his role as a father.
Tragically, Adams faced the pain of losing most of his children. His only surviving daughter, Abigail, passed away from breast cancer in 1813, and his second son, Charles, died from alcoholism at the young age of 30. These losses weighed heavily on him.
Even amid the pressures of leadership, Adams encouraged his children to be strong. In a letter to his eldest son, John Quincy Adams, he reminded him of the sacrifices made for their freedom. He emphasized the importance of recognizing the struggles that others endured for their liberties.
Later in his life, while serving as vice president, Adams continued to support his children’s futures. He assured John Quincy that he would support his career choices, showing his commitment to their well-being.
This Father’s Day, let’s remember John Adams not only for his role in founding our nation but also as a loving father who sought a better future for his children. His dedication to family and country serves as a reminder of the sacrifices made for our independence. As he wisely advised his children, we too should strive to protect our liberties, just as he did.